8 TIPS, HOW TO CHANGE LIFE
To grow, you need to change. You can not grow if you constantly stay in one place, if your views and mindset do not change. Our life is constantly undergoing change. This is a continuous process. As soon as your life stops changing, your growth stops.
1. Slow down
To change your life, you need time to think and think. If you are always busy and you don’t have time to even think about changing your life, you won’t have time to take any measures for it. Slow down and take the time to apply the tips listed below.
2. Wish to change
Readiness for change is very important. This is your life, and no one can change it except you. If you yourself do not want to change, nothing in this world will force you to do it.
To find a willingness to change in yourself, you must first understand that you can always improve your life. No matter how good she is, she can always be even better. If your life does not suit you, do not despair, think about how to change it.
3. Accept responsibility
You must take responsibility for your life. Do not blame others for your failures, boss or economy. Whether your life rises up, or rolls down – depends only on you. As soon as you accept responsibility, the changes will be available to you.
4. Find values
Deep in your heart are your true values. Take time to search for them. What do you think is the most valuable thing in life? What principles should you follow to live a full life? On these values and principles you should be equal. Find them and keep them in your mind.
5. Find the cause
Change is not easy, because there is inertia that you need to overcome. Just as a shuttle needs a strong rocket in order to overcome the force of gravity of the Earth, you need a strong source of energy to overcome your life inertia in order to change. Your reason is your source of energy. Having a reason will give you strength.
6. Replace limiting beliefs.
Limiting beliefs are the biggest obstacle to life change. You must identify them before you start fighting them. To do this, track your thoughts containing phrases:
“I am not able to …”
“I will always be…”
Write them down. After a while, look at the list. These are your limiting beliefs.
After identifying your limiting beliefs, you should replace them with beliefs that open up new possibilities. Write down the positive, opposing negative statements you wrote down earlier. Now, based on the new list, follow the positive beliefs. Do this every time you realize that your limiting beliefs are working.
7. Replace bad habits with positive habits.
In addition to identifying limiting beliefs, you must also identify your bad habits. which of your habits put pressure on you? What habits pull you down? What habits would you like to break? List them.
Instead of trying to get rid of these habits, focus on creating new positive habits that will replace them. For example, a bad habit is watching too much television. Make a positive habit to make the best use of this time. For example, start reading more.
8. Find a mentor
A mentor can help you improve your life. Not only can your mentor give you valuable advice on how to act in a given situation, he can warn you about possible pitfalls in your path. Without a mentor, you will have to go through a lot more difficulties and trials. Having a mentor will save a lot of your time.
Getting a good mentor is not easy. Do not expect anyone to spend time and effort on you, nothing